Ok, I refuse to be a victim in this. Whatever, dude. So he can take till Friday to message me back. This time I'm sticking with the plan. Let's be honest, Hopeful Brain needed him to do this to me twice in a row to get the message. No stones unturned.
So the final move is this:
- Wait 2x whatever length of time he takes to respond and schedule send at whatever ridiculous emotional booty call hour he sends the message. (Example. If it's Friday at 1:30a EST (4 days later), I will schedule- send my response at day 8 which is Saturday, the 26th at 1:30a PST.) Honestly, I'm so excited, giddy, and anxious, I might schedule it now. Eeeeek!
- Here's the final message:
Hey, this doesn't feel good anymore. I thought you were a genuine guy, but I think you're breadcrumbing me. That is unkind and I don’t deserve it. If you want to be done, we can be done. If you want to date, we can date. What do you want?
- The final question is rhetorical for Hopeful Brain and Mean Brain since they'll beat me up afterward if I don't ask. I get to hurt his feelings, call him out, and let him know how it affects me. I know there's some parties that believe that you shouldn't let people see you cry. But I'm a human. If you hurt my feelings, I want you to know. People remember.
- Here are the objectives this plan accomplishes:
- He gets to feel the anxiety of a delayed response
- I get to try the late night scheduled-send like I wanted
- I have time to get over the "break-up"
- And I get to have the final word
(I get some power back.)
And this all happens and ends before my birthday month. No rain on my parade that month!
(On preview, I think I might nix the last question. No more spoon-feeding an #almost40 year old man. We all know the rules.)
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