What I Spent on Sweets This Month (Apr 2019)

Originally published/last updated on myearlyretiremenjourney.com on 28Apr2019.

So, I started formally tracking my expenses Jan 2018. I did it for a year, and it was enlightening to notice the trends. For the most part I update my spreadsheet every three months and have been posting the results. My blog also includes my projected budget for the year which serves as a guidepost primarily. You don’t want your money just blowing in the wind with no purpose, do ya?
What I have noticed with some other personal finance bloggers who do publish their budgets, income/expenses, savings, etc (collectively “Their Numbers”) is that some publish their alcohol spending. Conceivably that has been identified by many as a line item that needs to be monitored and reduced. Some also do fast food, coffee runs, subscriptions etc… general non-essential things that exist in their lives as essential.
I don’t drink alcohol or even coffee for that matter, and I already separate my Eating Out from Groceries. I have always been aware that I have a sickening sweet tooth. I can’t pass up a cookie or fresh baked good. The smell, the smell… it works on me every time. Given that diabetes is prevalent in these Southern States, I know I probably need to start watching my intake of sugary delights.
So, I thought wouldn’t it be fun to track how much I actually spend on sweets in a month. I know the actual dollar amount probably won’t be that high as my monthly grocery budget stays under or around $200/mon. But proportionally, I’m curious how much of that is a) not nutritious b) covered in sugar.
Let the record reflect the following:
Purchase DateItemCost
4/3/2019Lucky Charms$2.00
4/3/2019Fruit Punch (12pk)$2.19
4/3/2019Corn Pops$2.50
4/6/2019Kettle Corn$0.50
4/14/2019Cookie$1.69
4/21/2019Fruit Punch$1.50
4/21/2019Froot Loops$1.00
4/23/2019Cookie Dough$2.04
4/27/2019Reese PB Cookie Dough$2.89
4/27/2019Pillsbury Brownie Cookie$2.89
4/27/2019French Toast Sticks$1.25
4/27/2019Cinnamon French Toast Sticks$1.25
Total$21.70
Total Groceries$111.50
So twenty bucks in sweets doesn’t seem like a lot on the surface, but given that I spent only around $100 in groceries this month, it’s kind of a lot! If you can’t guess, I really enjoy cookies. They’re so simple and so good. And now I’ve gone from making them from scratch, to using the cookie mix, to now just ready-to-bake!
In summary, 19% of my food spending is pure sugar!
Yikes. Definitely some room for improvement there.
Read More: 7 FIRE-UNFriendly Things I Still Do on My Early Retirement Journey: A Listicle
What about you, what tiny thing do you keep buying, that you could do well not to?

8 Hours, $200 in Ontario: Niagara and Toronto

Originally published/last updated on myearlyretiremenjourney.com on 28Apr2019. 

For my 35th birthday, I decided to get out of the house every weekend in March. If you haven’t met me, I spend most of my free time at home in front of the television.  Lately, I’ve been getting a little bored of that and itching to do something different. I don’t think I love (budget) travel, but I’m drawn to adventure.  For the last weekend of March, I visited Toronto and Niagara Falls, Ontario for the day.

Expenses

Since this blog is masquerading as a personal finance blog, let’s start with what this trip cost me.
Toronto (Mar 2019)
Airfare$205.37
Airport Parking$14.00
Rental Car$20.98
Fees$8.00
Fuel related to excursion$22.47
Total:$270.82

Notes on Expenses

Airfare – This was the cost of one way direct flight on Canada Air from Raleigh, NC to Toronto. You get free snacks on Canada Air! Protip- It seems these days airlines let your hold a fare for 24 hours without purchasing it. And more and more seem to let you purchase a fare for a full refund within 24 hours of purchase. News to me.
Airport Parking – I only went for a day but because of mechanical problems, my flight was delayed and I ended up spending the night in Charlotte, NC (only 2 hours away from home). It cost me an extra day of airport parking. I suppose I could probably request reimbursement for that from the airline?
Rental Car – One day rental in Canada.
Fees – Five dollars was for a cancelled Uber when I got lost in the shuffle of a surprise overnight stay in Charlotte. Ugh, I am not the savvy traveler I used to be. I mostly just panicked and had trouble navigating a cell phone and an iPad. I’m so out of practice with all this new-fangled technology! I think the other three dollars were for parking and a bank fee to use my debit card in Canada. That dumb bank!
Fuel – Driving the rental from Toronto to Niagara Falls. It was only about 3.5 hrs/rd trp. Barely used a quarter tank. Fuel is purchased in Liters. Silly metric system.
Some cost savings
I saved $200 on my return ticket by opening an American Airlines credit card. They gave me a statement credit, so the return flight was essentially free. I don’t recommend this hack for my future self because the temptation was too great to subsequently use that card for nonsense (see notes on South African trip). But that was my attempt at amateur travel hacking; I am obviously not ready! ️
I also realized it was the same price to fly in and out of Toronto the same day vs staying overnight as was my default since it was an international trip after all. I saved on vacation days by squeezing it into a weekend as well.
Were I a more savvy traveler, when the plane was having mechanical problems, I would have opted to stay the night in Toronto and catch a later flight the next day. Thereby giving me a chance to explore they city. Instead I stayed the night at my connecting airport in North Carolina and got the earliest flight back to Raleigh. Lame.

Getting there

Waking up at 4 in the morning wasn’t actually that bad. I beat my alarm and I had been working from home all week, so I was a bit eager to get out of the house!
Was quite late to board. Note to self, early bird flights out of Raleigh on a Saturday are quite popular. Leave more than an hour in advance next time. Almost missed my flight, as in doors closing. Apparently Canada Air calls you on your personal phone for close calls. Too bad I gave them my work number because Single Girl ain’t got no phone.
Flight was nice and short and a bit bumpy.
Toronto airport is huuuuuuuuuge-mongous. So many signs! So many trains!
Drive to the Falls was not bad. No cell service for the Single Girl. But my friend that I met there told me if you have Verizon, they’ll let you get international cell service at $5 for 24 hours. You get a magic text when you crossover.

Niagara Falls, Ontario

If you go on a dreary Saturday in March, there are plenty of places to park. They take USDs. Most places did. Municipal parking started at $3/hr. We found off brand parking for as low as $5 all day.
The Falls are free. The area surrounding is chock full of fast food and pretty average but plentiful consumer attractions. There is a sky wheel but seems to be weather dependent. Otherwise you can just walk up and down the path beside the falls. We crossed the Friendship Bridge to the US. That costs 4 quarters!!

Driving back

The drive back was pretty grey. Ten (10) lanes of traffic. Yes, ten. Apparently Toronto is a city of 2.6 million. Who knew?
Grabbed some Malaysian food in one of the city’s suburbs. Who can resist some roti canai? Ran out of time and got it to go! More traffic. Then shuttle from rental car place to airport. Given its size, I still tried to squeeze by with an hour before departure right? Right! NO LINE! Flying on American back, there were so many kiosks to check in and go through security.
Then the plane got delayed for mechanical issues. Then it had to be de-iced because wouldn’t you know it’s still snowing in Toronto at the end of March! American put us up for the night and provided a meal voucher. Good on them. Luckily, I had nowhere to be the next day.
Overall, I was kind of surprised by the little bit of Toronto I saw. The trains made me curious. If I can ever find a cheap flight out of Raleigh, I’d like to come back to explore Toronto via train. I also might like to see Quebec and Prince Edward Island.
That’s pretty much it. I’m officially a pro at visiting national parks in cold rain! Thank you for reading.

When I Went To South Africa

Originally published/last updated on myearlyretiremenjourney.com on Apr 28, 2019. 

For my 35th birthday, I decided to get out of the house every weekend in March. If you haven’t met me, I spend most of my free time at home in front of the television.  Lately, I’ve been getting a little bored of that and itching to do something different. I don’t think I love (budget) travel, but I’m drawn to adventure.  For the second to third weekend of March, I visited Pretoria, South Africa.

Expenses

Since this blog is masquerading as a personal finance blog, let’s start with what this trip cost me.
South Africa (Mar 2019)
Airfare$668.53
Transportation to/fro Airport$114.39
Total:$782.92
was $4182.92

Notes on Expenses

Airfare – Roundtrip coach airfare on Ethiopian Airlines from Washington Dulles to Johannesburg, South Africa. I think it was a pretty good deal! No, I don’t have travel points. It’s the first time I’ve left the country in five years. And first time I’ve flown anywhere other than Tampa in five years.
Transportation to/from Airport – I live in North Carolina but it was half the price to fly out of Washington DC. So I did that. I have an aunt that lives there so I parked my car at her house for the week. It cost $80/rdtrp to get the airport shuttle from her house. I was originally going to take Metro on the return trip but was so tired I splurged. The rest was gas to drive myself to and from DC.
Hotel/ meals/ excursions, etc.. – I was visiting a relative who moved down there a year ago. So housing was free as were meals. And airport pick up. In fact I spent virtually no money the whole week I was there.
Savings – So it seems this is a thing airlines are doing now. About a week before my trip, Ethiopian sent me very enticing email to bid on business class tickets.  Given my history of pain with sitting, I was tempted. Finally the night before departure, I submitted my bid of $1400 for the 1st leg of the trip (13 hr duration).  You could bid from about $1300 to $2200. My bid was not accepted.  I was both relieved and baffled.
(example)
Curiosity got the best of me and I asked when I checked in what the price to upgrade to business class was. The agent told me $1700 for that leg. I was tempted, but at that point couldn’t bring myself to do it.  On the way home I got the same email but this time I knew how much was required and still couldn’t do it. Thus, though tempted I sort of saved $3,400 on this trip. I’m going to count it as a sneaky win. I did activate a credit card specifically for the bidding! Shame, I know.
Early Retirement – South Africa Edition?
In South Africa, I mostly lounged, ate, and slept. My host had a great covered patio with a pool and it was the perfect lounge spot. I ate all my meals outside. I read outside. I napped outside. The weather was quite ideal for my chosen activities. I didn’t go because my host said it was dangerous and didn’t want me traveling alone, but Botswana is a 6 hour bus ride away. And Cape Town is only $110/rdtrp from Johannesburg. Note to self for next time.

South Africa Trip Report

Since I know no one else in my small circle of influence that has been to South Africa, I decided to do a little book report on my trip. ðŸ™‚
Black people
Given its apartheid history, I thought there would be more white people.  I was confused at first. There were so many black people! It is Africa after all; I don’t know why that surprised me. America has so warped my brain about what a black person is or isn’t, or where a black person should or shouldn’t be, my brain had trouble adjusting. It really did beg a question many people are afraid to ask themselves Am I scared of black people? Example: everyone was silently passing money up to the driver on one of the buses, a black man reached his hand out to take my money (to pass up to the front, but I didn’t know that) and I jerked my money away (as though he was going to steal it)!
Talk about cause for pause.
Currency
The currency in S. Africa is the rand. The exchange rate is 1:14.43. However, because I used smaller bills (think twenties), I got an exchange rate of 1:9. USE BIG BILLS, LIKE $100 notes. I didn’t even use that much money. I spent maybe 6 USD so the exchange rate was a bummer.
Human Trafficking?
My host had a domestic African woman who cleaned and cooked. It was very odd for me coming from America. When we ate, the woman ate in a little separate area off the kitchen. And from what I could tell she slept on the floor in one of the spare bedrooms. Yes, spare bedroom with a bed. It was very strange and I didn’t share my concerns with my family or my host. But otherwise, we all travelled and hung out together.
Phones/Facebook/ Uber
I could get Google Voice to call American numbers through wifi. FaceTime audio/video obviously worked through wifi. My Simple Mobile phone service did not work. From what I could tell, most people utilize WhatsApp and Messenger to communicate with their friends and family around Africa and back in the States. It was pretty cool to see technology and social media really bring people together and help them stay connected! Not like here where social media has been known to cause depression. Oh, le America.
They even have Uber in Pretoria, and I imagine Johannesburg as well. We used the Uber, and you could pay cash.
Travel time
As I’ve echoed in previous posts, sometimes I wonder if I even like traveling. I certainly don’t enjoy the journey, but I suppose it is an entirely worthwhile experience  to find yourself in a different part of the world. I just don’t know yet what the ultimate objective is other than scratching something off a to-do list. Maybe it’s the sum of the experiences? The jury’s still out. However, I will say changing time zones always seems so cool to me; it’s like modern day time travel.
Traveling from Washington Dulles to Johannesburg, South Africa
Dulles to Addis Ababa: 13h 15 min (even longer on return trip)
Addis Ababa to Johannesburg: 5h 13 min
Door to door:
I was picked up in Rockville, MD at: 6:37a EST Saturday. I arrived at my host’s door in Pretoria, South Africa at: 3:04pm/ 9:04a EST Sunday. TOTAL time in transit: approx 26.5 hrs. Some Ibuprofen helped.
Vaccines
CDC recommended for “most travelers” to S. Africa: Hep A + Typhoid.
I had Hep A from college and single girl wasn’t about to drop any more hundos on a vaccine. I took my chances on the typhoid and lived to tell about it. Do with that what you want.
Weather
March is early fall in Pretoria. Mornings were cool and the afternoon sun is hot. Then it cools off again in the evening. Bring layers like a thin long sleeved shirt if you visit this time of year (March).

Thanks to God

So here’s the thing about life. One minute you’re complaining that the Addis Ababa airport is a joke with hide-and-seek drinking water, misplaced security, and toilets you have to use buckets to flush. And gosh where is a refuse bin to throw away this paper towel. And oh why this long queue to board this delayed flight. And now we’re on the plane bemoaning yet another delay because ‘the airport is temporarily closed.’ And oh the drunken man three rows back won’t stop screaming. (Note, they serve free alcohol in economy.)
Then when we finally land, the Muslim man directly to my right says we all need to say thanks to God. For while we were all lamenting the comedy of delights that was this flight, the passengers and crew on the plane that took off just a few minutes before us were losing their lives. All 157 of them. The Ethiopian Airline stewardess was openly weeping as we disembarked.

When I Went To the Grand Canyon Solo

Originally published/last updated on myearlyretiremenjourney.com on 28Apr2019.

For my 35th birthday, I decided to get out of the house every weekend in March. If you haven’t met me, I spend most of my free time at home in front of the television.  Lately, I’ve been getting a little bored of that and itching to do something different. I don’t think I love (budget) travel, but I’m drawn to adventure.  For the first weekend of March, I visited the Grand Canyon.

Expenses

Since this blog is masquerading as a personal finance blog, let’s start with what this trip cost me.
Grand Canyon (Mar 2019)
Airfare$286.60
Hotels$96.56
Airport Parking$14.00
Rental Car$47.44
Fees$20.00
Fuel related to excursion$67.46
Total:$532.06
was $894.68

Notes on Expenses

Airfare – I flew into Las Vegas and drove to the Canyon the next day. It turned out to be about $100 cheaper to fly into Las Vegas than Phoenix (where I originally wanted to go). Direct flight both ways. Win!
Hotels – Stayed the night at Circus Circus. Bought on Expedia. I contemplated just sleeping in my car. Apparently, it’s a thing people do when travelling through Las Vegas or Phoenix. Decided it wasn’t for me. Maybe when I was twenty, and young and supple. Pro-tip: Las Vegas airport has sleeping rooms you can rent by the hour. Considered that but wanted to get the car the night before vs picking it up in the morning.
Airport Parking – Paid to park my car at the airport when I left North Carolina.
Rental Car – Cost of 1 day, unlimited miles. Small crisis at the rental car company because they gave me a bigger car = more gas. I waited around long enough and got a smaller car which I regretted because the bigger car had cushier seats and I’ve been having trouble with pain with sitting. Lesson learned – I’m not as young as I used to be!
Fees – Entrance fee to the park. Pass is good for up to 7 days and can be used for multiple people.
Fuel – Fuel for about 600 miles round trip. Yes, I went luxury and pre-paid the gas. High roller over here!
How I Saved $362- I originally purchased Southwest airline tickets to fly into Phoenix because Phoenix and Las Vegas are the closest big airports to the park. I had never been to Phoenix so planned to make a day of it there as well. Those tickets were about $400/rdtrp on Southwest.
Lodging was so pricey in Phoenix. The cheapest place I was willing to stay was about $147/nt and I would be staying two nights. No AirBnB for this single girl. Negative experiences in the past with shared housing. I bought the airline tickets first when I originally hatched the idea to make March an adventure month. By the time I bought the rest of my excursions for the month, I couldn’t justify spending over $800 on a weekend trip.
So I searched again and found cheaper hotel and airfare out of Las Vegas and since I’d already visited Las Vegas there was no need to stay an extra day.  Thank God Southwest has no cancellation fees. I was able to cancel my SW flight and save the credit for later. I flew a budget airline (Frontier) and stayed one night saving me almost $400. Win for the single girl!

Was it worth it?

I’m glad I went but it was kind of a hassle. It was a 9 hr rdtrip flight from Raleigh and 9 hour rdtrip drive from the airport. And I did it all with a 36 hour turnaround to save money. Was it worth seeing? Yes. Was it worth the hassle? Less so. If you find yourself in Pacific/Mountain Time, take the time and make the drive. That being said, there were international tour group buses there so obviously people have come from farther distances to see the canyon.
If I lived say 90 minutes or less, I think I would enjoy hiking the trails and make it a goal to hike all the shorter ones. I would like to see the canyon at sunset and sunrise. That would be nice. Especially when it’s not rainy, windy and cold (it was so windy one lens popped out of my glasses).
Going this early in the season did mean less foot traffic overall! The drive is easy. I think I saw maybe 12 vehicles each way. The rest were semis and the road was so uncluttered and the landscape vast and expansive. That was my favorite part. I could see myself trading in the suburbs for desert life, if only I didn’t like to waste water so much. J/k… but water conservation efforts were notable. I think I also saw stars on the drive back, but I couldn’t be sure because I haven’t seen them in so long. They might have just been bright lights in the sky, UFOs, or the reflection from my dashboard ðŸ™‚

What I would do differently

I think I would’ve preferred to fly into Phoenix as I originally planned, but Stingy Mcgee couldn’t pass up the savings. I got so caught up trying to find cost cutting measures, the transactional nature of the trip was palatable. I even forgot to download my audiobook because at one point I had enough of planning, so it was a lot of driving in silence or listening to static or random country channels. Also, this would have been better served as a leisure trip instead of quick jaunt to the park and back. Oh well, I can finally cross it off my to-do list!

Single Girl Life | Apr 2, 2019 Update: No New Friends

Originally published/last updated on myearlyretiremenjourney.com on 28April2019. 

Since so much of my early retirement journey is not related to money, I’ve been trying to find another metric to track. Tracking another metric is for motivational purposes and serves as living documentation of other aspects of  my journey.  This is a preliminary post. If you have other things you’re tracking along your life or personal finance journey, please share!
Using some of my old journals and ideas from other personal bloggers, I’m going to try these items.

Work

Still working at the call center. Working the 11a-7p shift.
In March 2019, received an annual bonus of about $3,700. Got an annual raise of about $1/hr. I am grateful. Thanks, God.
Been working from home most of March and it’s been pretty nice albeit not any easier to take the few steps to my desk. Every morning it’s the same: Ugh, what am I doing here. I’ve tried to resign myself to this life but my brain keeps peppering me with asinine questions to hatch a plan to make my life better, to find an escape, to take a break. But Brain (yes, I call my brain by its name) doesn’t tell me what “better” looks like. It’s a daily struggle.
Current ruminations: quit in 2 weeks; ask for per diem schedule of 2 days a week; ask for 30 hours a week; take a year off starting in Sep 2019; take a year off starting in Sep 2020.
Note, I’ve been told before that generally time off is approved only for health reasons, but I know at least 1 person that has gotten a per diem schedule and 1 person long ago who got one day off for a little while but then had to go back to full time to meet company needs.

Life

Most recent life update on this blog: On 4 Years of Solitude and Reaching Out Again
No changes here. I have been contemplating making a new friend or two. After reaching out to old friends with no real sparks, I feel less compelled. The thing is I’m not one of those people to whom things just happen. Unless I decide to be open to a new platonic relationship, I won’t make the small talk; or accept the invite to socialize; or seek out social interactions.
Right now, I still spend 99% of my free time watching television. I decided to delete my email account off my iPad because I was checking email rabidly as if the answer to all my problems were just one email away.
Went on four trips in March. Part of me thinks it was a waste of time. I really don’t get it. The memories fade eventually, so really what’s the point? And I still have to come back and go to work. What a tease. Part of me  was hoping that by having something to look forward to it would make me think less about quitting work. You know… I’d have something to spend the money on other than food and rent. Help it did not.

Money

Most recent financial update on this blog: Single Girl Money | March 2019 Financial Update.
Automating savings is efficient but really takes away that element of achievement. I guess I don’t mind since the saving is getting done. It was really nice to see my investment balances greater than my contributions as that was not the case at the end of 2018.

I Dream of Early Retirement

If I were early retired today, I would have made a big breakfast and watched a movie (Up in the Air).
Maybe I’m hoping by documenting some of my thoughts (especially in the dream section), I can identify that trend all the self-help and life coach gurus say should be there. The trend that’s supposed to help you find your bliss, your joy, your purpose. *rolls eyes* I’ve been journaling for 35 years and tried every online find-your-bliss exercise I can find and still haven’t found it, but hey maybe there’s a more observant person out there.