He Finally Called!

 So Slow Fader aka The Texter aka PenPal finally called, and even that was a cluster. He asked if I would stay up later since it was Friday so he could call me. I said yes and asked when. He said 10:45p. Was I supposed to respond, okay? Because he didn't do that last weekend when I asked him to call. 

I wait almost 15 minutes and no call. Ready to delete him, once and for all, I get a text saying to call him if I'm still awake. I'm so mad!!!

I wait 5 minutes to see if he'll call. Nothing. Another 5 minutes. So finally, I call. It rings a couple times then I get a tone like a fax machine. So I try again. Same thing.

Am I getting catfished somehow?

The whole thing is weird. 

So at this point, I'm beyond losing face and just text if he's still there. I tell him I tried calling. He says it didn't ring, so he tries me again. I miss the call cuz... Google Voice. Then I try again, and finally he tries again.

So yes we talked for about an hour. Finally.

I think he is who he says he is. 

He just reminds me of every bro from college. 

I've never felt Nothing for a guy before. I don't know because it's been 2 months of 'what the heck' are we doing so I've already felt the feeling or what. 

He did say he was sensitive and when I asked Really, he said why would I lie about it. So maybe it's true.

But what does that mean?

Am I so out of touch with people that I can't tell if someone is flirting?

I'm not writing him off yet but I can confidently say I have no idea if he'll contact me again because the conversation was just that neutral. 

And I honestly think I would be okay. There wasn't the fire of that initial match with someone who might be really into you. 

He actually seems genuine. Like I might be over-complicating things. But honestly, it's very confusing getting only 1 text a day. Who does that? As the old saying goes, no one is that busy!

I mean by all indications, 'he's not that into me,' so I'm just really confused of his motives. And it's not even a legitimate emotional booty call because he sends his one daily text when I'm already asleep. 

So it's almost a NatGeo experiment for me like..what the actual heck is going on here.